A confession, and a hope for A

A is about to graduate from preschool tomorrow and embark on her Kindergarten experience.  She is ready and excited.  Her preschool teacher this year is retiring, and what a teacher she was!  Ashlynn mimicked and learned SO much from her.  I can’t even begin to start with all the things Ashlynn has learned.  This woman set everything to a tune paired with some large gross motor movements, and the combination

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Still we rise

Still we rise

I received all of Ashlynn’s reports from her re-evaluation.  I knew it would be hard.  It’s hard to read those scores and things about your baby.  However, I was also proud.  So proud of how far she has come.  She is the hardest working child I know.  The social worker and special education teacher seem to understand her the best.  They listed her strengths, which are many.  They were thoughtful

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Am I the only one?

“Lord woman.  We need a jet airplane, a case of wine, and a few days to ourselves.  We are living parallel lives.” I received this text today from a mom I have never met, but who I feel I must have known my entire life.  I found her through the marvel and wonder of the internet, and in only a year’s time, I feel I know her life story….not because

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Where are the dads in the therapy process?

Working in the schools, I often don’t have the chance to talk to parents as much as I would like.  Though there are the obligatory IEP meetings, it’s not the same as being able to see the parents every week and chat about speech therapy; or better yet, having the parents right there in the session with me. To date, I have seen a little over 20 children who have

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Success WAS there, and we will revel in it.

Exactly 18 months ago, I wrote one of my favorite and initially most popular posts: Lessons from a Tricycle.   At that time, Ashlynn was close to 4 and still could not pedal a tricycle.  I describe how we bought it a couple months before her third birthday when I was pregnant with my son.  A year later, I wrote that post and explained that she STILL wasn’t able to

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The day the page went blank.

I can’t remember a time since I learned to write that I stopped writing.  I was the girl with diaries, journals, writing pads, and notebooks filled with writing.  Obviously now, I continue to write.  There was a time though my writing was noticeably absent.  I recently scoured my notebooks and old blogs searching for what I wrote around the time of Ashlynn’s diagnosis and came up empty.  I had many

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